Friday, April 19, 2013

Soulmate Popular Quote

A soulmate is an ongoing connection with another individual that the soul picks up again in various times and places over lifetimes. We are attracted to another person at a soul level not because that person is our unique complement, but because by being with that individual, we are somehow provided with an impetus to become whole ourselves.

Edgar Cayce 

Monday, March 18, 2013

Signs of A Soulmate Connections

6 Signs of A Soulmate Connections

Assessing your relationship is the first step to making it last. In finally finding the one, examine first whether a relationship is in the long run, ruly good for you or not. Here's a clue you in on how to check true soul mate connection.
You accept each other; One of the crucial indicators of being soul mate is truly accepting each other -right from the get - go .
Letting go and fully accepting each other , and "surrendering" to each other is a sure sign of soul mate potential says Laura  Doyle ,author of surrendered single ; A practical guide to attracting and marrying the man who's Right for you. 
If you're in a committed relationship but are trying to control each other in some way (he wants you be less of a chatterbox, you insist he change careers), think twice about pursing the relationship
."Control is the enemy of intimacy," intones Doyle. Often times, she adds, we believe we're bound to land our soul mates if we only learn how to manage ," control ,and manipulate the outcome of every situation. Only when you both can say" I accept her or him" sincerely and honestly , will you be on your way to building a lasting couple dom.

2. You're available Physically and emotionally for each other.; Women have a feminine  side that's soft ,tender, vulnerable, and receptive  example Doyle."That part of you wants to be taken out to dinner, walked home, asked about, thoughs of ,caressed, and  just plain taken care of .It's the part of you that relished felling protected and cherished, "These are the same qualities and needs that have drwan men to you and these are the qualities that your real soul mate must recognize fullfill.

3. You AGREE  to Disagree; One of the surest signs of soul mate potential is a couple's ability to resolve disagreement and conflict in a way that suits them both. This means that you see eye to eye when it comes to communicating your needs and shortcomings.
"[Soul mate] understand  one another is needs  unconditionally , and the union works in good as  well as bad time, "say's Myrna Lou Golhum, author of Soul mate connections. 
In fact , experts believe that men and women ,instead of going through the dating process to find their soul mate , should  instead ,simply be given unpleasant tasks to complete together - to see if they laughed or bit each other's head off throughout the ordeal, as a  way to test their compatibility . Golhum explains that more often than not, two people who are right for each other are sensitive to each other needs, and thus able to focus and talk freely."Soulmate are sounding boards for exchanging thoughts and guidances. They search for the answers to lifes dilemmas together."

4. In more ways than one; "In a soul mate relationship ,life can be incredibly exciting and comfortable  at the same time," reveals Goldhum that's because you and your man may be connected at more levels than you realize.
Nine times out of 10 , soul mates get each other's nauces and quirks .In shorts , soul mates trully understand each other, because they operate on the same  wavelength ,"Neither person  criticizes  or treats the other like a second. Class citizine," says Goldbaum ." They can talk; hold measuringful , lengthy  conversations where each takes a turn speaking as the other listen."
Communication is keu."It's a red  flag if you have to call your friends  or obtain in PHD to decipher what he is trying  to communicate to you,"says  Marshall." For example , you think that you are having a discussions but you walk away from each conversation feeling confused."Buttom line?" If you cannot communicate about the simplest of things , you might not be able to build a good relationship arrangement together."

5. You dreams Are in Sync; "In choosing the right partner ,one must look for character, not simply looks or personality ," reiterate Goldbuam" A common the read  is present where both have similar interests ambitions , and goals for the future."
Those compatibility tests may just prove to be true;" There are characteristics  - including  religious  values , ambition , and energy  level - that determine a couple's  compatibility quotients," reveals  Neil Clark Warren,PHD, author  of falling in love for all the right reason.The move two people match on these qualities ,the better therr chances of staying solidly together.

6. You lives change - for The better; One of the most telling signs of being with someone who's soul mate material is the emotional growth you've experienced from being in that relationship generates something new - a new experience , a new understanding , a new solution - with each encounter , explains Marshall.

"Having a soul mate in one's life increases awareness and alertness and constantly forces one to confront [the]self , explains Goldbuam , who adds that true soul mate can work on their problem areas to connect the faults  within each other ."Soul mates give each other self - confidence. Together, they have the power to makes dramatic changes.

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Saturday, March 16, 2013

Secrets of Soul Mate Love

Secrets of Soul Mate Love

Many people dream about finding their "soul mate," the person who will sweep them off their feet and make their life complete. Dr. Oz talks with Kathy Freston, author of The One: Discovering the Secrets of Soul Mate Love, about the unpredictable power of attraction and how to create that soulful relationship.

According to Kathy, a true soul mate comes not from a romance novel, but from chemistry. "[It's] actually someone we're drawn to irresistibly," she says. "You're drawn to this person in such a way that you simply cannot turn from it—something is happening on such a soulful level." That person may not fit the physical image you have for a partner, but Kathy believes there's a reason for every relationship. "We attract into our lives the very kind of energy we need to experience in order to grow," she explains.

There can also be more than one soul mate for a person, Kathy says, and they can serve different purposes. Sometimes that powerful attraction can lead to a relationship full of drama, and that person may not be someone to spend your life with. Other times, no matter how powerful the attraction, people grow out of each other and the relationship ends. The important thing, Kathy says, is to realize that you are "the one"—only then can you find a more fulfilling, soulful relationship.

Ultimately, it's all about growth, Kathy says. When you refuse to grow, you're doomed to repeat the same kinds of relationships again and again. The easy path is to stay in that comfortable place where you don't have to face your inner self, but you won't be fulfilled. "To live a deep and soulful life, we have to take risks," Kathy says. "[We have to] expose ourselves, connect with someone and meet our partner with an openness that we normally wouldn't show."

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My Soulmate or Just Coincidence

Is he my soulmate or just a coincidence?

Ask your soul and yourself !

if he is truely your soulmate, youd be with him already and actually stay. why did you guys date and break up then right? maybe right now he is the only person you can see yourself with RIGHT NOW.. 

I think you should just keep waiting, cause things change, you meet more ppl, and you then might find someone els.

Tell him that whenever you think of him that you see him at random moments. and that you should try going out again. 

Why didnt the relationship last while you guys dated? maybe there was a problem because by now you would be his girlfriend.

Just talk to him and tell him you wanna hang out sometimes.

By tootifruity511 and kathy on

Friday, March 15, 2013

How can I tell him/her ?

How can I tell if he/she is my soul mate?

You could be right. Never know until you try and see if it works. 
I didn't believe in
 soul mates (still mildly skeptical of the concept)...but I've had my mind somewhat changed. 

As for the distance. That doesn't matter. My boyfriend and I live much, much farther apart than you two (as in..we each live on a seperate -continent-)

We manage to make things work just fine. It's not easy...but nothing worthwhile ever comes easy.

The bottom line: If you think he might truely be your soul mate, then give it a shot. Never pass by an opportunity that may only come once in your lifetime. And none of us here can answer your question truthfully. It's something you have to discover for yourself. 

Is it worth the risk? Are you willing to work your *** off to make things turn out favorably? Can you both stay faithful through such a long distance? If yes, then try it and find out if it's the real deal or not.

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Knowing If Someone Is Your Soulmate or Not

How do you know if someone is your soulmate or not ?

You really do just "know", it's something you can simply feel and know in your heart. I have been dating the most breathtaking man in the world for quite some time now. When you no longer look for something in return, and do all that you can to ensure their happiness, that shows that you have a deep care for them. Recently I stumbled across this lovely song/poem, and I want to share it with you:

"Love is a funny thing.
You expect it to be easy. You expect it to be a world of roses and laughs and perfect moments that you find only
in movies.

You expect her to
always say the right thing, and
always know exactly how you feel,
or exactly how to react to it.
You expect her to calm you down when you're yelling or to chase you
when you run away.

You expect so much that you feel entirely, and utterly defeated when something doesn't exactly match up to all your plans. But that's the thing.

Love isn't a plan. It doesn't have
a certain beginning and it
certainly has no end, or a visible
finish line to those deeply in it.

Love happens; it is so
incredibly messy. People around
you can't comprehend why you do
the things you do, or why you
fight so hard for something that
seems to cause you so much pain.

Because simply, they can't see.
They can't see the invisible ring
of insanity that surrounds you
when you're in love. It's
inconvenient and painful and
devastating at times, but we can't
live without it.

What you don't learn is how hard love is. How much work it takes. How much of ourselves we have to put into it.
How it isn't worth it until we are
complete and utter idiots about it.

Love isn't her calming you
down when you yell. It's her
yelling, just as loud, just as
hard, right back at you, right in
your face to wake you up and to
keep you grounded.

It isn't her or him bringing you roses
everyday or cute things that make
your relationship appear more
presentable. It's right after a long
fight, that drains the life and
bones right out of both of you, and
yet her or him showing up at your door the next morning anyway.

It's not her saying all the right things or knowing exactly how to handle you. So no, it's not her caressing your
hair and telling you everything is
going to be okay. It's her
standing there, admitting she's
just as scared as you are.

You have to remember that with love, you're not the only one involved.
You've unknowingly put your life,
your heart into the palm of
another's hands and saying,
here. Do what you will. Mash it
into a million pieces, mash it into meat. Or forget I ever handed it to you in the first place. Just as long as you
have it.

It makes reality invisible and it
erases all the lines that we
shouldn't cross. Because love
isn't about fencing ourselves in;
feeling safe, feeling sure about
the future.

It's about scaring every nerve in our body, but pushing forward anyway.

Because all the fighting and all
the tears and all the uncertainty
is worth it. And it's a hell of a
lot better, than being 100% happy
without someone to show us that
there is a world of a difference
between feeling 'happy' and
feeling whole."

you really are just going to know.

By LULZ on